Boys boys boys there are somethings you need to learn when you are chatting to a girl and want to grab her attention.
Here are 10 rules for you to follow and be successful on this site and actually get the girl that you want.
1. Don't just randomly talk to anyone. This is dart-board approach and it's a time waster..Surely you don't want to waste your time, nor anyone else's. The least you can do is check out their profile. Read their essay and see if there's something there that resonates with you.Then start the chat with something you read that made you write this person. The girl will be wowed ..trust me!
2.Do not, I repeat, DO NOT ask the girl to marry you after the 2nd sentence. Please be practical. If you're looking for anyone, just get your mom to go and khasgaree a girl from back home and check off the marriage requirement on your bucket list.
3.Don't start a chat with a girl and then leave her hanging because someone else started chatting with you. This is rude unless you can multi-task. If you are busy save the chat for another day. End off on a nice note something like: "hey, it was great chatting with you let's continue this another time". This will end the chat and enable you to talk to someone else. As we know boys, you are simple-minded and very few of you can multi-task so you must follow this rule.
4. A good conversation is when both parties participate. This means that the girl shouldn't be doing all the talking or carrying the conversation. If she asks you questions it means that she wants to know more about you and in return you should do the same if the same is true. If not, just be straight-forward and say "sorry, you have some great qualities but I am looking for something else".
5. If you have a specific intention, mention it at the beginning. Like if you are here for a serious relationship state this in the middle of your conversation after introductions etc. If you are just looking for friendship, say that as well so the person is aware. A question like "what brings you to this site may unravel a lot".
6. If you are getting to know someone already and both of you have revealed interest in each other and want to see where this will lead, it doesn't make sense for you to get to know someone else at the same time. The reason for this is simple. Interference from a third party may confuse you and will naturally lead you to ignore the person you are getting to know. This causes a back and forth cycle of "what's going on? Is he into me or not?" Not worth it. Finish what you started with one and then move on.
7. However if you haven't revealed interest but are just getting to know each other, then you can get to know others as well. This usually includes casual conversation and when no one has said anything like "i like you and want to get to know you more"
8.If you had a great conversation with a girl, ask her how she wants to stay in touch? Perhaps it will still be on this website, in which case you guys can chat or send messages to each other, or msn, skype, bbm, texting etc.
9. When the time comes and you are ready to meet your gal. Ask her where she wants to meet. If she leaves it up to you then you can use your creativity. Be a gentleman, be courteous, considerate and respect her honour.
10. Last but not least, if you ever think of doing something not nice whether in the chatroom or in a relationship ask yourself: "Would I want a guy doing that to my sister?"
I hope these rules can help you during your chats.
I challenge for a man to write the rules for the gals. Although, I think we can handle ourselves quite well. lol
Until next time,
KhandehRoh
Chat Etiquette for Guys! 10 RULES.
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28 Nov 2011 at 09:35
Lol. good stuff but. hun you gotta make ur list as simple as a,b,c ... i heard them guys don't like reading anything more than a sentence lol
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28 Nov 2011 at 16:55
hahaha..yeah i couldn't fit all the stuff they need to do in a sentence!
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6 Dec 2011 at 21:05
one sentence: Treat others as you want to be treated!
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19 Jul 2012 at 10:05
who can do all these? NO TIME FOR ALL Rules talk directly what u want to say just say and leave on her to think about you
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20 Dec 2012 at 22:04
wow- this rules are so simple - yet i wonder why im stil single and have not found the right guy-
my dear sis I hope this is an eye opener for the boys- xoxo |
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30 Jan 2013 at 23:06
Nice tips, but Must be for the one with no brain, and no common sense*#censored#*
Edited by Deleted Member 30 Jan 2013 at 23:07
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31 Jan 2013 at 05:14
A simple rule for everyone ( man or woman)... be Yourself, go with the flow if you are getting the right vibes. Otherwise move on
And quit demanding others do things as they please you. Edited by AnalyzeThis 31 Jan 2013 at 05:15
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31 Jan 2013 at 16:12
LOL, this was written for men, I take it. However, the irony is that the women need to follow such a list first. I have uncovered more lies, multiple profiles, secrets and the like from women. I know you all are desperate to find someone and are afraid to be fully honest, but you play, you pay. Best things to do is don't give up your identity. Spill the beans all at once and then only after a prolonged conversation and trust that he won't spread your secrets, disclose your identity. Don't try to snag him first and then tell him your dirty secrets later--very uncool and that's entrapment. You'll pay for that later, trust me. And worse is not telling him yourself and he finds out about your secrets on his own...god help you. So, honesty is the best policy and you'll live without any weights on your shoulders.
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31 Jan 2013 at 17:31
I think these rules are great if all of us can follow it .
Everyone needs to be honest and hopefully we can all get someone that would appreciate us in our life. Good luck to everyone |