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Khalifa Umar Ibn Khuttab
One particularly interesting story occurred during the reign of Khalifa Umar Ibn Khuttab. Unlike other leaders, Khalifa Umar would walk around the city at night to see if everything and everyone was fine. He would try to solve problems if made aware of anything not right. One night, he went in disguise as not to be recognized by the citizens. He was accompanied by his good friend, Ibn Abbas. As they made their way to all parts of the city, they finally reached a neighborhood where very poor people lived. When he was walking by a very small house, he heard a mother telling her daughter to add water to the milk that they were going to sell so that they would have a greater quantity of milk. The daughter told her mother that although they did that prior to becoming Muslims, now that they were Muslim, they could no longer practice deceitful business dealings. The mother again insisted that her daughter add water to the milk. The daughter replied, "No. The Khalifa said that we should not practice deceitful acts."
The mother said, "We are too poor. It is the only way we can earn enough money to provide for us. The Khalifa has forgotten us, and he won't know what we did."
The daughter said, "Such an income would not be lawful; as a Muslim I would not do anything whereby other Muslims are deceived."
The mother said, "But there is neither the Khalifa nor any of his officers here to see what we do.
Daughter, go to bed now and tomorrow I will myself mix the milk with water for you."
The daughter refused to take part in the plan of her mother. She said, "The Khalifa may or may not be here, but his order must be obeyed. You may escape the notice of the Khalifa and his officers, but how can we escape the notice of Allah and our own conscience?" She also said, "Omar cannot see us but the God of Umar can see us." The daughter refused to take part in the plan of her mother.
Thereupon the mother remained quiet. The lamp was extinguished and the mother and the daughter went to sleep.
Having heard all of this, Khalifa Umar knew of the mother's plan. The next day, Khalifa Umar sent a man to buy milk from the woman. To his surprise, the milk didn't have any water added to it. The daughter knew right from wrong and was strong enough to hold her ground with her mother.
Khalifa Umar said to his friend, "The daughter stayed strong even when her mother wanted her to do something wrong. She deserves a reward. What reward should I give her?"
"She should be rewarded with some money," said lbn Abbas.
Khalifa Umar said, "A daughter like her would be a great wife for my son. Someday she would make a good mother–strong, honest, and a great role-model. Because she is so good, she should be given the greatest gift in the nation, because everyone in the nation should learn how to be good like her."
The Khalifa sent for the young woman and her mother to come to his court. The mother shivered because she was afraid when she stood before the mighty ruler, but the young woman stood boldly and without fear.
Then, in front of everyone, Khalifa Umar told how he had overheard the mother and daughter talking about adding water to the milk, and how the daughter had done what was right, even when her mother told her not to.
Someone said that the mother should be punished, but the Khalifa said that usually he would, but he had forgiven her because her daughter was so good. Then he turned to the daughter and said, "Islam needs daughters like you and as a Khalifa of Islam, it is my job to reward you. I would like to reward you by having you as my daughter."
Then the Khalifa called his sons and said to them, "Here is a wonderful young woman who would make a great wife and mother. I don't know a better bride than this girl who is so good." Abdullah and Abdur Rahman, the oldest sons of the Khalifa, were already married. Asim, the third son wasn't married yet, and he offered to marry the young woman. When the young woman and her mother agreed, Asim married her and the milkmaid became the daughter-in-law of the Khalifa. From this union was born a daughter, Layla, who became in due course the mother of Omar bin Abdul Aziz, who became one of the most great and unique Khalifas.
Wisdom in Islam
The Wisdom in Islam
'Wisdom In Islam' encompasses in its radiant words the true goals that all of us must strive for. Its bounty of mercy, forgiveness, and guidance is stunning in its clarity. If perhaps each of us would make the commitment to practice these principles for even one day we would feel the power and grace of Allah working in our lives. Imagine using this wonderful guidance on a regular basis? It is especially important during this month of Ramadan to endeavor to practice and then to invite others to practice these beautiful words of wisdom.
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A Bedouin came one day to the Prophet (Peace Be Upon Him) and said to him, "O, Messenger of Allah! I've come to ask you a few questions about the affairs of this life and the Hereafter."
- Ask what you wish.
- I'd like to be the most learned of men.
- Fear Allah, and you will be the most learned of men.
- I wish to be the richest man in the world.
- Be contented, and you will be the richest man in the world.
- I'd like to be the most just man.
- Desire for others what you desire for yourself, and you will be the most just of men.
- I want to be the best of men.
- Do good to others and you will be the best of men.
- I wish to be the most favored by Allah.
- Engage much in Allah's praise, and you will be most favored by Him.
- I'd like to complete my faith.
- If you have good manners you will complete your faith.
- I wish to be among those who do good.
- Adore Allah as if you see Him. If you don't see Him, He seeth you. In this way you will be among those who do good.
- I wish to be obedient to Allah.
- If you observe Allah's commands you will be obedient.
- I'd like to be free from all sins.
- Bathe yourself from impurity and you will be free from all sins.
- I'd like to be raised on the Day of Judgment in the light.
- Don't wrong yourself or any other creature, and you will be raised on the Day of Judgment in the light.
- I'd like Allah to bestow His mercy on me.
- If you have mercy on yourself and on others, Allah will grant you mercy on the Day of Judgment.
- I'd like my sins to be very few.
- If you seek the forgiveness of Allah as much as you can, your sins will be very few.
- I'd like to be the most honorable man.
- If you do not complain to any fellow creature, you will be the most honorable of men.
- I'd like to be the strongest of men.
- If you put your trust in Allah, you be the strongest of men.
- I'd like to enlarge my provision.
- If you keep yourself pure, Allah will enlarge your provision.
- I'd like to be loved by Allah and His messenger.
- If you love what Allah and His messenger love you will be among their beloved ones.
- I wish to be safe from Allah's wrath on the Day of Judgment.
- If you do not lose your temper with any of your fellow creatures, you will be safe from the wrath of Allah on the Day of Judgment.
- What will save me from sins?
- Tears, humility and illness.
- What are the beet deeds in the eyes of Allah?
- Gentle manners, modesty and patience.
- What are the worst evils in the eyes of Allah?
- Hot temper and miserliness.
- What assuages the wrath of Allah in this life and in the Hereafter?
- Concealed charity and kindness to relatives.
- What extinguishes hell's fires on the Day of Judgment?
- Patience in adversity and misfortunes.
"I have never heard a tradition more comprehensive of the beauties of religion, and more beneficial than this hadith. It collects all the good things of Islam."
(Related by Imam Ibn Hambal)
GIVING UP SINS: AN EASY PRESCRIPTION
There are many, many Muslim brothers and sisters throughout the world who, due to various negative influences and bad elements, find themselves 'de-railed' from Deen (Religion). Many others sit on the fence, wanting to enjoy or benefit from both sides of the fence - engaging in sins as well as being practical on certain teachings of Deen. However, deep in their hearts is the desire to get back on track, and once again become good, practical Muslims; to jump off the fence and enjoy the green pastures of Islam.
A standard prescription that I give as a reply is as follows. Alhamdulillah, many who followed through with the prescription have found a whole new life - of peace, happiness, blessings and mercy. Once a believer tastes the sweetness that comes with obedience, there is no desire to return to any form of disobedience. As Muslims, we should:
•Abstain from committing sins, out of love for Allah SWT. He has granted us so much - He has granted us everything and it is the nature of human beings that we love whosoever is kind and generous to us. Then what of Allah SWT who has provided us with everything? The sight, hearing, speech, the organs that are functioning in such an amazing manner, the limbs - all in our service - for eating, drinking, walking, sitting, etc. The gifts of wealth: the clothing, shelter, transport, food, drink, and so many other comforts. We use them all, but do we keep in mind, the Generous Benefactor? Do we give thanks for these bounties or show any appreciation to the Giver?
•Develop the conscious awareness that Allah SWT is always with us: He watches us, He hears us and He knows all and everything about us. We cannot hide from Him and we cannot conceal our actions from Him. Then should we not feel ashamed that in His Presence, we are disobeying Him? Are we not showing ingratitude to the Benefactor, when engaging in sins in His very Presence?
•Ponder over the fact that Allah SWT has blessed us with the gift of sight, hearing, health, wealth, etc. However, what He gives, He can also take away and stated that ingratitude for His Gifts will draw very severe punishment.
•Keep in mind that the angels are also witnesses to all our actions; that the earth is recording our behavior and it is documented in our books of deeds. On the Day of Judgment we will all be held accountable to Allah SWT for the actions and deeds that that we have committed.
•Muraqabah is meditating on the actions that we have engaged in during the day: We should reflect over our deeds for the day and seek forgiveness for shortcomings and resolve not to take part in reenacting the same bad deeds. We will develop shame and modesty which will make it easy to restrain from Haraam (forbidden) things. We should also express gratitude on good deeds and make dua to Allah SWT that we continue to do take part in carrying out those actions.
•Ponder over the fact that the Angel of Death does not give respite. How would it be if while one were obeying the nafs (self, ego) in sinful pleasure, the Angel of Death visits and makes the departure not only a disgrace, but returns the human being to Allah SWT at a time when He is extremely angry. May Allah SWT protect us all from death in a state of transgression.
•Death is inevitable - and often, unexpected. No true Muslim would want to be seized by the Angel of Death when Allah SWT is displeased. So many things on the market are instant (instant coffee, tea, noodles, etc.) very much like death. So any sin is too much of a risk in the face of the reality of death. The Hadith is explicit: We will be resurrected on the Day of Judgment as we have died and we will die as we have lived. Would any Muslim want to rise up on the Day of Judgment in sin, for all of mankind to witness what kind of life he led?
Contemplating on the consequences of sinful behavior and putting a little bit of Mujahada (effort), which entails 'not doing', will Inshallah result in having our sicknesses are cured.
Together with this:
•Attend the talks of the learned Scholars of Islam whenever possible, and/or listen to recordings of their talks and read their books to benefit from pious, righteous company.
•Make the effort to pray punctually. Men should make every effort to make their Salaah in Jamaat (congregation).
•Read good, Islamic literature. Abstain from magazines or books that have filthy and indecent contents and pictures.
•Give up television viewing. …90% of the content is Haraam (forbidden). If a person offers a full glass of clean and pure water, and mentions that there is just one drop of urine, would any sensible person, drink it? Then when the major content of television is Haraam, what should then say? When the gaze, heart and mind are consuming and digesting so much of Haraam viewing, what else would be the end result except indulgence in the same Haraam.
•Lower the gaze from the opposite sex.
•Dress as a Muslim should - A person with this appearance will think a hundred times before engaging in an open sin, when he is being recognized as someone who must be very pious. So this attire and appearance will offer a protection, Inshallah.
By doing these few things, you have won more than half the battle. And it is not as difficult as Shaytaan and nafs whisper and try to pull you off of the right path. A little courage, a little effort and a little sacrifice are all that is required.
May Allah SWT grant us His Love, such that it becomes easy to give up all sins and submit to His Obedience. May He protect us all from the mischief of Nafs and Shaytaan. May He fill our hearts with Love for this beautiful Deen and inspire us in being a practical and good Muslims and be true role-models to our community.
Reality!!
Young and Old we all will return to our Lord this life is like a 30 day trial.May Allah Aza Jal heal all those who are sufferring from terminal illnesses and give the highest level of Jannat Al Firdous to those who are not amongst us anymore.Ameen Ya Rabal Allameen!!!
Wake Up Call (Smell the coffee)
Sometimes we are so lost in this dunya that we forget about life after death. We are so focused in being content in life that we forget those who are suffering. We are so astray from Religion that we forget to thank the Lord for another day of life. We are so into the riches and luxories of life that we forget those who are hungry here in America not even mentioning those back home. This is a endless struggle in life. We are being trialed everyday weather we know it or not. We are suffering from hatred inside the soul that we forget what the true meaning of love is! Love for God. Love for family and friends. Love for society and humanity. Love for animals and nature. We use and abuse things and when we are used and abused we can only complain. We are ungreatfull to he that gave us life. When their are those suffering from internal and external illnesses are on their death bed.When will we wake up and realize that one can die in a matter of a blink of an eye.Stand for whats true and whats revealed to you in do not deny the message of Allah for that is a way of life that will get us to the Gates of Jannah Insha'Allah Tala.
Family
You can have everything in the world , money , nice car, big nice home ,But if you don't have family you have nothing..FAMILY IS EVERYTHING IN LIFE
Words of advice.
Sometimes you don't get what you want... you get what God wants you to have.Don't deny whats been revealed to you. Pray for those who are among us and those who have left us. Life is short,nothing is forever,nothing is guranteed. We all vistors in this world and residents in the next. May Allah forgive us because we are slaves with errors and imperfections and May he guide us to be those rightous servants that will be dwelling amongst the Prophet Muhammad (SAW) in paradise & may we all stand steadfast in prayer.
Relationship
Words alone don't make a relationship of any kind, put actions of trust, honesty, kindness, empathy, and strength behind them and it will last an eternity.
Ya Allah!
I ask Allah to give me someone who is sincere and committed.One who will accept me for who I'am and will love me for my inner and outer beauty.I'm just a fragile soul looking to dwell in love with my other half. Am I asking for too much? I promise to give you 100 percent of my attention. I'm not asking for a big house and a expensive car. All I ask for is another chance to love. I'm a lost soul seeking her soul keeper. One who will cherish me til the day I die and pass down my memories with the generations to come. I'am me either you take it or leave it. I will no longer allow anyone to walk over me and use me as some sort of entertainment. I'm a dime piece. One in a million rare and real!
Letting Go
Letting go of the relationships that don't serve you leaves room for the one who deserves you...